Parenting and politics: My views are similar on both


Lately I have been thinking a lot about how I have done / am doing as a parent. Two of our kids are in college and a third headed there this fall. With them leaving the nest and approaching the big wide open spaces of the world, it has struck me that my views on parenting and on politics are very similar.

When I think about what I wish for for my kids, I do NOT wish for a world with out obstacles, unfairness, bumps in the road or mountains to climb. Those same mountains that are daunting for them now will prove to be what provides the scenery when they have reached the summit.

I do not wish for them to never know the sting of unfairness. Instead I wish for them to rise above it and learn the lesson of treating others kindly and fairly. They can learn that lesson no other way. If I teach them to rely SOLELY on the protection of others and not to defend themselves and their loved ones, then they are destined to not be able to teach my future grandchildren that same lesson.

The same in both of these cases applies to politics, of course.

I cannot teach my children to rely on government, or bureaucrats and also to rely on themselves simultaneously. I cannot teach them self reliance, and also to expect to depend on a handout from the government. Getting the latter in the long term undermines the liberty and sovereignty that I wish to provide them.

I cannot teach them to voluntarily submit their will to their Creator and Savior and to follow his example in serving others and giving freely to those in need, if I teach them that the only way that one is compassionate is if they provide their income to a government at the point of a gun and that the government and the politcians will be the benevolent ones to distribute it. I must teach them to render unto Caesar that which is Caesars, unto God that which is God’s. One is a forced act of submission, the other a willing act of contrition.

I must teach my kids to care and give freely rather than submit and be manipulated. The latter is a poor substitute for the former.

I must teach them the fine balancing act of being tolerant to all beliefs and yet unyielding in defending theirs. I must remind them that accepting others for who they are requires an equal amount of respect to be reciprocated. Always.

I must teach my kids that true freedom requires responsibility. They are inseparable. Ā Irresponsibility always leads to captivity, it always has. Whether to a habit, to pain, to embarrassment, or simply to the consequences of the irresponsible act. They are inseparable.

I must teach them that taking from others is wrong. Anytime. Everytime. If it belongs to others, then it is not yours. Period. If it belongs to you, then it is yours. Defend it vigorously. Give of it freely to others. Do not hoard. Keep enough for you, but provide others around you the opportunity of success that you enjoy.

I must teach them to defend the defenseless, shelter the homeless, serve the weary, comfort the sick, and take joy in small moments of kindness to others… and that noone smiles when they write a tax check thinking “wow I have this warm feeling of providing for others.” Yet personally giving of your time and money and heart to individuals will allow you to feel all of those things.

Finally, I wish for my kids Liberty. The Freedom that allows them to be what they want, even if that is counter to my will or beliefs. I cannot show them the joys and value of Liberty and confine them to my way of thinking.

Free will is a gift that I treasure, and while I am responsible for guiding them, I am equally responsible for allowing them to freely choose their future and their success.

It takes no courage to enhance your power…


Forget which party I am talking about. It does not matter.

If you are in politics, you will always perceive that you are there to enhance the base of your political power. You will be a slave or a closet slave to polls. You will worry about appearances and what people think more than you should. It is the nature of the beast.

That is the GUTLESS path. That takes little in the way of courage.

The COURAGEOUS politician is one who sticks to their principles when they kmow that it will weaken their power. I admire those sorts of people. They are the kind of people who shrink government’s role in our lives rather than simply go along with an expanding government in the hopes of one day controlling.

Yeah, it is only one distinction. But it is a big one. šŸ˜‰



I have an open ended question that I would like to ask the world. If you feel inclined to, please provide your comment below.

“When is it right for one person to take another person’s property from them? (Money, land, anything of value)?”

Some instant things come to my mind. If the person has directly wronged you and you sue them in a court of law, that could be one of those times. But for the sake of arguement, let’s stipulate that that is right.

When else is it right?

(follow up questions will be posted once we have discussed your answers.)

Common Sense


My goal in creating and working on this blog is to create what I consider to be common sense. Once that is done, my goal is to persuade others that what I consider to be common sense is in fact sensible. This blog is also a search for that same common sense that I think many people find missing in today’s world.

Whether you consider today’s political chicanery. Or the latest business trend. Or power mongers trying to inflate their importance in either Politics OR in Business. The bottomline is that they are all subjects that need the light of truth and common sense shined on them.

If you spot some areas where common sense needs to be applied in a nonsensical world, please feel free to comment or contribute. I reserve the right to edit or delete comments at will. This is my online home and I will invite whom I want to contribute and visit. Be kind to people from all points of view. Discuss logically. And let’s learn together.